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Thank you
Thank you for bringing a rational, well thoughtout, piece of journalism to this case. I am appalled at some comments that I have heard in the past week and a half.
Thank you for the very
Thank you for the very thoughtful article, Nancy. It has been weighing heavily on me these last few days that so many Grosse Pointers leapt to the conlusion that some Black Person From Detroit committed this crime and that Grosse Pointe should do more to shore up its borders.
As you stated crime has not gone up in the Pointes yet there is a widespread assumption that it has. I do not think the reason that perception has changed is because we get more news over the internet; we've always had the Grosse Pointe News to look and see who broke a fingernail or what fool left their car running in their driveway from where it was stolen. I'm fairly certain that the reason some Grosse Pointers perceive that crime has gone up is that they see many more black faces than they used to and for many white people, the mere sight of a black person makes them hold their purse a little tighter, lock their door a little faster, feel less safe.
I think we are at a golden point in time here in the pointes, where a chance for real integration, understanding and sharing of cultures is possible. There are more black folks living here than ever before. And most of the white people who live here cannot run away this time as they are underwater with their houses. Let's seize the moment! White folks, have a conversation with your new black neighbor. Invite them over for dinner. Arrange a play date for your kids. Say hello, start a coversation, get past the stereotypes that have been programmed into us white people and make Grosse Pointe a model city of integration for the 21st century. Let us be as celebrated now for our inclusiveness and togetherness as we were damned for our model of white supremecy and policies of exclusion in the 20th century.
Bashara Murder
This was a very thoughtful and beautifully written article, especially given the painful topic. I think people jump to the conclusion that some "nameless other" has murdered a member of the community as it is less scary than thinking it was committed by a known person who belongs among them.
The Bashara Murder
Excellent article, sums it up. Thanks, Suzanne Ross
GP For Life doesn't agree
Nancy, your moral outrage over people making comments amongst their internet friends while they were understandably in some form of shock is commendable. If we didn’t have people to tell us how we should feel and react to these types of tragedies I don’t what we would do. Also, it is thoughtful of you to withhold the names of people who made semi-private comments. I get that Facebook isn’t exactly a private medium and the people you are referring to made the somewhat dubious decision to include a journalist among their circle of friends. Thus, they should have thought a little more before typing away their sense of grief and frustration but maybe you could be less judgmental.
Facts are facts and as people looked at the limited facts at the time they made their judgments accordingly. For instance, when Mrs. Bashara was found in an unsavory area of Detroit we knew her last location was downtown. Presumably she was on her way home, a carjacking or some other robbery attempt may have happened in Detroit and things went wrong and the end result was what was found. Given the limited facts that were available at that time the above would not have been an unreasonable, or even unlikely, assumption. Since few criminals are commuters we could assume that chain events started and ended in Detroit.
Though, as more facts were brought to light we saw a more complete picture and the previous scenario becomes increasingly unlikely. Citizens don’t have a responsibility to gather the facts before making assumptions. That responsibility falls to police and journalists.
It is completely understandable in my mind that people made judgments, however wrong they may ultimately be proven. I understand this is your soap box, or bully pulpit, and you feel you have a right to cast your judgments down upon people. But, I deal in realities and reality is that when the details were emerging a carjacking gone wrong was not an implausible scenario.
I could go on and support this argument using fact and statistics about why it wasn’t implausible that someone from Detroit, who statistically was most-likely African American, perpetrated the crime based on the first-available facts in the case, but I won’t. Another simple fact of the matter is that you’re here to sell hits and engendering moral outrage about what people (most-likely) wrongfully concluded based on incomplete facts will certainly help you in this goal.
Personally, I don’t think it is paranoia that a community with an average annual income several times that of their closest and largest neighbor view outsiders with some degree of fear. The haves and have-nots have always been trying to retain or alter the equation since the beginning of time. It won’t change in the future and it won’t do any good masking your guilt by casting down condensations from your tenuous perch onto your fellow community members.
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